Written by I still have feelings for this girl I was dating for 2 months. I think we had strong feelings for each other and then all of a sudden within two weeks she became really distant.
This is her email:
i know i just sent u an email! gosh im really stupid..but listen…i probably shouldnt do a talk like this over email..but i just wanna get this off my chest and we can definitley talk more about it when we see each other
ive been so confused lately, on whether i wanna be in a relationship or not. It’s been so great getting to know you and u have been nothin more than sweet to me..but i just dont think im ready yet for it to be so official. This is my first summer being single and i never planned on even seeing someone or dating but you know how things just happened from grad ball to bomber and stuff and ur so cute and how can anyone say no to that!
it sucks cuz i feel like we have the greatest chemistry but something keeps holding me back, im not the kind who when they are dating someone they just dont call and stuff, but i feel like my school and friends are my priority right now and thats so unfair to u. So i figure me and u would be better off as friends cuz i dont want to make u drag on with my confusedness. This really sucks since shani is ur sister and well my bestfriend. But i know u are a very mature person and wouldnt let things get awkward between us all. I feel like im putting her in the middle of all this and I am a really bad friend for doing that but she loves u and well im sure wouldnt want me to hurt u so i think it should be okay.
like i still want us to hang out and be friends! even have all the guys over for that poker night! we’d all have so much fun and stuff! I hope u can understand that i really didnt mean to hurt u and I hope u can forgive me for all this:( cuz its made me so sad the last couple of days but i shouldnt be so selfish and think of just myself, i hope u can be okay with this. I just feel its better to be honest and tell u what im feeling, better than lying to u and keeping it a secret..in the long run u deserve someone who is on the same level as u and knows what they want.
talk to u soon i hope
Just say that you enjoyed your time together and thank her for being nice. Then go home and cry.
well she was nice about it. and maybe you can tell her that it is ok for her to drag you into her confusion. or just be okay with it and tell her that some day maybe you 2 can get together again
It may seem hard to start with but the best thing to do is to get up and get yourself out and about again and meet someone else. Dont wollow and get stuck in the past, thats what i did and it doesnt do you any good in the long run.
LOL, you could change a couple words and women could copy and paste it as the break up email. Just fill in the blanks. How sensitive and politically correct. Don’t respond.
It was nice being with you.
Hope you get hit by a train……..Biatch
JUST KIDDING
tell her how you enjoyed it and maybe your paths will cross again or some other cheezy stuff.