Written by tastey2touch asked:
we have been together for 3 years i dont want him to get bored with our relationship,what is the best way to resolve communication problems, does anyone have advice on how to keep the spark in our relationship and help us grow stronger together
we have been together for 3 years i dont want him to get bored with our relationship,what is the best way to resolve communication problems, does anyone have advice on how to keep the spark in our relationship and help us grow stronger together
talk to him find something to do with togetther
Do unexpected things find out what he likes. Just talk to him even when your in doubt.
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stop having sex consistently if you are. let it build up. go on dates to places you never thought youd go. like a museum. i mean, if you dont like the art you can just make fun of everything. just try to make the best out of anything
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Just talk to him.
sex
dont be too cligy
do some new postions in sex
do somthing he likes
go away on vaca with him
marry him
but if he dosent like u anymore there is nothing u can do rely
Do spontanious things…..If you live together have him bathwater ran and candles lit, some music……or you can surprise him with tickets somewhere you know he really would want to go…..give him a hot oil massage….learn strip teasing dances (from youtube) and give him one….theres plenty you can do….just do somethin he wouldnt expect you to do.
ive heard the 3 year mark is the toughest in a relationship…for the reasons uve already listed lol….id just have a talk with him…thats how you get everything out in the open express your feeling about how you dont want the spark to go away and try some new things…wether its just going out to dinner more or going on dates again…i mean try going to places you went when you first got together and rekindle things…
suck his junk while hes sleeping so he wakes up to something good. that may work
asking him what to do is the worst thing you can do. Men like women who can figure things out on their own. do something sexual for him, perhaps wear something really sexy too.
other than that, do a lot more things together, whether it being a little trip every once in a while or something simple as going rollarblading.
Be who you are, do not pretend or try to find things out. I am sure he wants you to be the same as the first time he met ya.
Good luck
Do differ activities, look differ eveytime you see him, get your hair done, nails, keep up with what you wear everytime you with him also do differ stuff, how do think i keep up with a relationship for years
let him kw you want to make the relationship stronger go camping watch the stars and spend time with him =]
Start breaking down barriers, you both know what they are so do what you need to, to break them down. Set aside at least one night week as a date night and have fun, connect with each other. Mix things up, there’s a lot you can do, do it! Send him random texts it could be I love, I want you, explicit or what ever let him know your thought at that time.
you need to keep it spicy do things you have never done, for ex. go out and by a costume one that is his fantasy. suprise him with sex when he least expects it. with the communication you need to sit down and talk to him, tell him you really need him to listen then tell him what is bothering you. if that doesnt work he is not willing to listen you need to get out of the relationship because if he doesnt listen now he will never listen.
How about random little suprises for him! He wouldn’t have thought that you’d have been thinking to suprise him through a spread of 2 weeks! Make each one unpredictable and things that he would def. love!
Nb: some things for you and him, for just him and some for him and his friends/family
Good luck
its tuff to say… most relationships turn into a pattern. no one wants a monotanous relationship but 9 out of 10 times, without us even knowing what happend; we start getting on eachothers nerves constantly. try to change things up its easy. people get bored of routine. if you do the same things every day blahhh… will illustrate your relationship. Good Luck,
P.S. keep him guessing
note: google (how to keep sparks in a relationship) or something youll find more than you want to read