Written by I dont know what to do, if i finish it i will feel so guilty because i have very strong feelings for this guy.
Let me just tell you the basiscs:
We met on holiday in greece ( im greek, i always go there every summer thats how i got introduced to him because i have many friends and family there) for about 3 weeks towards he end of the summer holiday we were hapily coupled enjoying the summer romance. when out of no where one night he said to me lets carry this on we’ll try and see how it goes. so i thought what the hell lets do it.
when i came back to ngland it was horrible i felt like my heart was dying, seriously. trust wasnt an issue i had and still have total trust in him. its just that it is one of those relationships where everything is right you knw when you together everything else is out of the picture just you and him …you can even call it love.
i know what you’re thinking 3 weeks come on fling but seriously it isnt a fling …we’ve been having this long relationship for 7 months and meanwhile he’s come over to england for 2 weeks and spent them with me. but i cant carry on like this he has a life over there and i have one over here. i cant ask him to leave his life and come and live with me its too toooo early for that.
the problem is that i feel like nothing with out him now. he’s recently gone back to greece, we talk every day one way or anther we keep in contact. it just like a fairy tale, this silly young love which i must say REALLY hurts. going back to the whole problem …i feel like both of us are suffering from this …he’s there waiting for me im here alone waitin for the holidays just to see him. i feel that sometimes i justw anna tell him listen lets just leave it this relationship isnt going to go further than you know during holidays …its too hard i dont know what going to happen but i just wanted some advice…
….do you think i should carry it on or tell him that its better for both of us to just get on with our lives …by the way that would be the hardest thing to do …considering that ive been dating properly for about 3 years now and he’s the first guy i actually have feelings for
thanks to anyone who answers and please be considerate and try to remember your first love ..thats bascily what im going through
all the best
well i wouldnt cus god no’s wat he cud do
I can honestly sympathise for you. Im in a similar situation myself where things are controlled by distance and seperateness and to be honest i think you need to be totally honest with him. Has he indicated wanting more. Are his actions matching his words. Let him know how you truely feel and that things need to go one way or the other. Either join together and start sharing your lives ooor bring it to an end. Your’e torturing yourself and love ought to bring happiness and joy the majority of the time.. NOT pain and misery. It ends up being debilitating.