Written by Nicole T asked:
so my best friendis a huge flirt, and when we are together people think we are like going out or something.We no each other better than we know ourselves. We are always together,everyday. We are also only 17. People think theres more to us than just a friendship, but we say no. We flirt together so much but in a fun way, and we have never kissed on the lips like that. Recently he stayed over and it got kind of intense but we still didn’t touch lips. I dont know , all our friends think we have hooked up and we never have. And then i ask myself if there was a girl he’d hook up with tomorrow would i care? nope i wouldnt, i dont think so.. so i dont think i like him like that, i dont think, but we have such a strong incredible connection. We trust each other so much and he’s just amazing in every aspect. so what should i do? just keep it like this and continue having fun or make a move? or talk about it?
so my best friendis a huge flirt, and when we are together people think we are like going out or something.We no each other better than we know ourselves. We are always together,everyday. We are also only 17. People think theres more to us than just a friendship, but we say no. We flirt together so much but in a fun way, and we have never kissed on the lips like that. Recently he stayed over and it got kind of intense but we still didn’t touch lips. I dont know , all our friends think we have hooked up and we never have. And then i ask myself if there was a girl he’d hook up with tomorrow would i care? nope i wouldnt, i dont think so.. so i dont think i like him like that, i dont think, but we have such a strong incredible connection. We trust each other so much and he’s just amazing in every aspect. so what should i do? just keep it like this and continue having fun or make a move? or talk about it?
i love the way everything is now,
and im so scared to ruin anything
if you dont feel youre a couple, then youre not.
perhaps youre just getitng ideas cos of what ur m8s are saying, but if you really love him, you would know.
and theres nothing wrong with being just friends anyway., its great
something similar happened with one of my best friends, and we just decided to start a relationship,just like you I’m scared to ruin anything, but I’m 26 and he’s 36 so I think we are mature enough to make it work and even if it doesn’t keep our friendship…