Written by natasha asked:
well recently i have been very stubborn towards my boyfriend and when i’m upset with him i give him the silent treatment and i keep trying to break up with him… and i realize that i’m being so stupid and i apologized to him and broke down crying
it’s just i get so jealous and think he is going to cheat on me
and he is going to find someone else and dump me
and that i’m pushing him away and eventually i’m going to end up single
and i don’t want that
because i love him and i am so sad without him
is there any way that i can make our relationship better
like how it was before all of this?
like make our love stronger?
please help
best awnser 10 pts
well recently i have been very stubborn towards my boyfriend and when i’m upset with him i give him the silent treatment and i keep trying to break up with him… and i realize that i’m being so stupid and i apologized to him and broke down crying
it’s just i get so jealous and think he is going to cheat on me
and he is going to find someone else and dump me
and that i’m pushing him away and eventually i’m going to end up single
and i don’t want that
because i love him and i am so sad without him
is there any way that i can make our relationship better
like how it was before all of this?
like make our love stronger?
please help
best awnser 10 pts
i think you need to sit him down and tell him these things. So he knows whats going on and what he needs to do to help you guys say together.
Talk to him, I would always talk to my girlfriend when she was like that. We talked and it’d make her feel better. we’d just huddle on the couch, and talk. Spend more time with the person. But if things aren’t going to work out. It is wise to break up. You are afraid of being single, but is being single so bad compared to how you are feeling right now?
Communication is key. Tell him how you feel. You will be amazed how much better things are when you can talk with him about these things.
Yes you can star with an attitude adjustment. I”m not saying that in a mean way I’m saying it in a kind way. I used to the same thing honey and it gets you no where. Try to be softer with your words towrards him.Try sending him some flowers for a change and see what a diferance that makes.Try opening his car door, find a new pet name for him,do something nice like and out of the ordinary when ever you get the chance.What ever you do, don”t curse, men hate it !!! Send him a love letter telling him how much you love him and invite hhim to dinner.I”m sure you can think of some other good things on your own to add, just use your imagiation dear. Just what ever you do, when you feel that attitude coming on count to ten and remember how awful it would be to be alone and without him, because that”s exactly what”s going to happen when that bad attitude starts to going on again. Good luck.