It sounds like you should ditch this “friend”. whether you go for this girl or not you need to get rid of this so called friend. he sounds like a total tool. go for the girl and forget the friend

You should go out with her. you will probably treat her much better then her last.

You really need to find out who you want to be with. Its not fair to your fiance that you are in love with somebody else. You can’t be in love with two people at the same time. If you want to be with your fiance you need to give ur whole heart to him and not thinking about wanting to be with your best friend and the same thing goes if you want to be with your best friend. You won’t be able to give your whole if you are sharing it.

I have to agree with the others…Your friend, who is a rapper with a temper, doesn’t seem worth it to end your current relationship. Its nothing new that women are attracted to a man who other women want and you may want him just because of this. You might have cold feet in general (about the marriage) and somehow it transformed into “loving” the rapper. If you can’t distance yourself from your friend, you should probably break off the engagement with your fiance. Because, if you do get married, the problem will not go away, it will get worse. Just be fair to your fiance. Consider him above yourself and your friend. Good luck!

i say hide it from your friend but its fucked up but if ur guy friend is your best friend im sure it wouldnt matter and btw its just a girl there is 3.XXXX( billion)amount of girls is it worth ruin ing a friendship over

If you really care about your fiance you will STOP hanging around with your best friend. Im sorry but saying that you have come close to cheating and that you cuddle him every week is bad especially when you have emotions for him. You must tell your fiance about your feelings and if you carry on seeing your best friend, you must end the relationship because to me cheating for you seems inevitable.

Omg .
wow
you are
really nice [:
your friend
was an
ass to her .
So really i think
you should go
out with her .
But because he’s
such an
old friend .
Try seeing if he has
ANY feelings for her .
If he doesn’t,
tell him .
Good luck [:

Considering the things he’s done., nope. Youu should date her. Especially if youu feel that way about her (:

I think you should go for her !!! I would … GOOD LUCK!!!

Set a date for your wedding.Your best friend is not the one.