Sapped asked:


I can’t believe Im even writing this but here goes.

I love my fiance, I can’t imagine a day without him in my life. Hes everything to me. I have never cheated on him, and would never, I know how much it would hurt me if he would do it to me and would never want to put him through that. Our sex life is great, our relationship is strong, and we don’t keep secrets…except one. I don’t know how but I am ALSO in love with my best friend.

Only in the past year have I realized the intensity of our friendship, and how not normal it is. For one, I get INSANELY jealous over him…not just with girl friends, but with girls just being his friends, and with his groupies (hes an upcoming rapper with quite a following in the NY area). And while he and my fiance get along really well I know that he gets the same way, and hes really protective of me. We used to hook up once in a while (before my fiance and in between me and my fiances few break ups), and then we would both get really weird about it and not talk about it.
We both have an affinity for music, especially rap and horror movies, and often cuddle up weekly for our “biffles night”.

It came to the point where sometimes I feel myself slipping towards cheating and I would have to ask him to take me home before I let it happen.
I know he cares deeply for me, and he tells me all the time that Im one of the few people he can trust because I was there before the music, before the shows, before the girls would throw themselves at him shamelessly, and Ill be the one to catch him if his career goes bust. But all in all he would be a terrible boyfriend, one reason being we both have tempers that explode unexpectedly, another would be his fame….because even at this point I can’t handle it.

So, how do I handle this? How do I handle a platonic relationship with a boy I would sail to the moon for? And how in the world do I learn to cope with all the women that he parades in and out of the house and studio without loosing my cool (which Im known to lose)?
the date has been set for months
and iorny above all iorny, my best friend is walking me down the isle to “give me away”

-BWG- asked:


Ive known my friend 2nd grade, now we are juniors in high school. He used to go out with this one girl and he absolutely treated her like ****. He would call her fat and a *****. Even though sometimes he was joking, it still dosent matter, i treat a girl with respect. but anyway when he broke up with her (he did it in a text by the way) he told her off for no reason and called her a hoe and all sorts of rude ****. After he did that, his X started talking to me and i calmed her down about the whole situation and she was crying and stuff. I have been chilling with her now and her and i have built a really strong relationship, and i have some deep feelings for her now. I know I’m probably end up going out but im gonna keep it a secret around my friend. Also my friend has stabbed me in the back plenty of times. But do you guys think it would be fucked up to go out with her? ive talked to many girls before but i have a different feelings for this girl

Nicole T asked:


so my best friendis a huge flirt, and when we are together people think we are like going out or something.We no each other better than we know ourselves. We are always together,everyday. We are also only 17. People think theres more to us than just a friendship, but we say no. We flirt together so much but in a fun way, and we have never kissed on the lips like that. Recently he stayed over and it got kind of intense but we still didn’t touch lips. I dont know , all our friends think we have hooked up and we never have. And then i ask myself if there was a girl he’d hook up with tomorrow would i care? nope i wouldnt, i dont think so.. so i dont think i like him like that, i dont think, but we have such a strong incredible connection. We trust each other so much and he’s just amazing in every aspect. so what should i do? just keep it like this and continue having fun or make a move? or talk about it?

i love the way everything is now,
and im so scared to ruin anything

Allison J asked:


somewhat enjoyable or not the worst experience of my life, i am nervous about enough things to keep me from fulfilling a promise to have sex with my boyfriend on christmas, but need to know what will help to make sure that i can handle it correctly.

we are 17 years old. dating for 3 years and have as strong of a relationship as we can have as teens.

Lisa K asked:


I dont know what to do, if i finish it i will feel so guilty because i have very strong feelings for this guy.

Let me just tell you the basiscs:
We met on holiday in greece ( im greek, i always go there every summer thats how i got introduced to him because i have many friends and family there) for about 3 weeks towards he end of the summer holiday we were hapily coupled enjoying the summer romance. when out of no where one night he said to me lets carry this on we’ll try and see how it goes. so i thought what the hell lets do it.

when i came back to ngland it was horrible i felt like my heart was dying, seriously. trust wasnt an issue i had and still have total trust in him. its just that it is one of those relationships where everything is right you knw when you together everything else is out of the picture just you and him …you can even call it love.

i know what you’re thinking 3 weeks come on fling but seriously it isnt a fling …we’ve been having this long relationship for 7 months and meanwhile he’s come over to england for 2 weeks and spent them with me. but i cant carry on like this he has a life over there and i have one over here. i cant ask him to leave his life and come and live with me its too toooo early for that.

the problem is that i feel like nothing with out him now. he’s recently gone back to greece, we talk every day one way or anther we keep in contact. it just like a fairy tale, this silly young love which i must say REALLY hurts. going back to the whole problem …i feel like both of us are suffering from this …he’s there waiting for me im here alone waitin for the holidays just to see him. i feel that sometimes i justw anna tell him listen lets just leave it this relationship isnt going to go further than you know during holidays …its too hard i dont know what going to happen but i just wanted some advice…

….do you think i should carry it on or tell him that its better for both of us to just get on with our lives …by the way that would be the hardest thing to do …considering that ive been dating properly for about 3 years now and he’s the first guy i actually have feelings for

thanks to anyone who answers and please be considerate and try to remember your first love ..thats bascily what im going through

all the best

valentina o asked:


(im using my sister’s account so i am a guy)
She s so down and i know she waits until I m asleep so she can cry for hours and sometimes i comfort her and sometimes i leave her to it because i know she s trying to keep it secret from me. What i find confusing is that half the time she is so cheerful and funny and playful, i find it very confusing. How can i approach this and help her?
Is it something i m doing? On the whole our relationship is really strong, we ve been together a year and we love each other. (Both 19)

Bianca007 asked:


i’ve known this guy for 7 years, and the last 3 years my feelings for him seem to be getting stronger. We are pretty close family friends. At my sisters wedding, the chemistry between us was very strong. We have definitely passed the boundaries of flirting. We’ve shown through actions that we like each other, but i want to tell him. Our only issue is really age difference. Keeping this love secret is more unbearable than rejection itself. What should i do? (keep in mind i know i truly do love him, and that he got out of a bad relationship in the summer)

ghettoera asked:


I’ve been best friends with this guy for about a year now and in December he told me he had a huge crush on me and has since May. I pretty much had felt the same way. The problem is he lives 800 miles away. He came to visit me for 6 days at the end of December. Since we both don’t want to have an nternet relationship, we decided to stay friends. We pretty much are boyfriend and girlfriend, but there’s no stress and pressure to keep a relationship strong. I’ve become too attached to him and he’s the kind of person who is afraid of becoming to close to someone, so he keeps distancing himself from me. I feel so heartbroken and wonder if I’m wasting my time. It’s just the fact that I feel so rejected by him. In real life everything was perfect and we we’re so in love. Now he just keeps it at a friendship. He loves me and I love him, but I just feel so shut down. What do I do? Should I try not to become too attatched? Am I over-reacting? I’m really depressed.

Dee asked:


Here’s another one. So me and my ex brokeup. We are use to the club scene. We always went together always danced together and always to the same spot b/c its the best. Now that we are no longer together I dont just want to sit at home and not do anything but think of him, I still want to go out have fun and quickly get over his sorry self. Of course I still have feelings 4 him but I dont want it to let me down. Is it wrong that 4 me to keep going to our normal hang out. There’s the chance that he’ll be there but I want him to see that im trying to move on and that just because he brokeup with me, Im not at home feeling sorry for myself. Im really trying here and I want to move on with my life. Im not ugly and I treated him very well. The way that this guy just ended our relationship over nothing has left me a scar. Am I wrong for trying to move on and show that I am stronger and better than that. It beats sitting around at home and crying.

keeks asked:


Through out the past ive been in horrible relationships…..ive been cheated on and miss treated….a year ago along came my sweet wonderful boyfriend and i couldnt be happier. But im always getting afraid and insecure and here and there i try my best not to let my guard down and its all due to fear of being hurt. I mean i should know better he isnt that way hes completely faithful and even a wonderful father to his kids. what can i do to remain confident and to let me keep my guard down and trust that he wouldnt hurt me…?