diobrando19 asked:

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Sapped asked:


I can’t believe Im even writing this but here goes.

I love my fiance, I can’t imagine a day without him in my life. Hes everything to me. I have never cheated on him, and would never, I know how much it would hurt me if he would do it to me and would never want to put him through that. Our sex life is great, our relationship is strong, and we don’t keep secrets…except one. I don’t know how but I am ALSO in love with my best friend.

Only in the past year have I realized the intensity of our friendship, and how not normal it is. For one, I get INSANELY jealous over him…not just with girl friends, but with girls just being his friends, and with his groupies (hes an upcoming rapper with quite a following in the NY area). And while he and my fiance get along really well I know that he gets the same way, and hes really protective of me. We used to hook up once in a while (before my fiance and in between me and my fiances few break ups), and then we would both get really weird about it and not talk about it.
We both have an affinity for music, especially rap and horror movies, and often cuddle up weekly for our “biffles night”.

It came to the point where sometimes I feel myself slipping towards cheating and I would have to ask him to take me home before I let it happen.
I know he cares deeply for me, and he tells me all the time that Im one of the few people he can trust because I was there before the music, before the shows, before the girls would throw themselves at him shamelessly, and Ill be the one to catch him if his career goes bust. But all in all he would be a terrible boyfriend, one reason being we both have tempers that explode unexpectedly, another would be his fame….because even at this point I can’t handle it.

So, how do I handle this? How do I handle a platonic relationship with a boy I would sail to the moon for? And how in the world do I learn to cope with all the women that he parades in and out of the house and studio without loosing my cool (which Im known to lose)?
the date has been set for months
and iorny above all iorny, my best friend is walking me down the isle to “give me away”

-BWG- asked:


Ive known my friend 2nd grade, now we are juniors in high school. He used to go out with this one girl and he absolutely treated her like ****. He would call her fat and a *****. Even though sometimes he was joking, it still dosent matter, i treat a girl with respect. but anyway when he broke up with her (he did it in a text by the way) he told her off for no reason and called her a hoe and all sorts of rude ****. After he did that, his X started talking to me and i calmed her down about the whole situation and she was crying and stuff. I have been chilling with her now and her and i have built a really strong relationship, and i have some deep feelings for her now. I know I’m probably end up going out but im gonna keep it a secret around my friend. Also my friend has stabbed me in the back plenty of times. But do you guys think it would be fucked up to go out with her? ive talked to many girls before but i have a different feelings for this girl

alooby asked:

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Nicole T asked:


so my best friendis a huge flirt, and when we are together people think we are like going out or something.We no each other better than we know ourselves. We are always together,everyday. We are also only 17. People think theres more to us than just a friendship, but we say no. We flirt together so much but in a fun way, and we have never kissed on the lips like that. Recently he stayed over and it got kind of intense but we still didn’t touch lips. I dont know , all our friends think we have hooked up and we never have. And then i ask myself if there was a girl he’d hook up with tomorrow would i care? nope i wouldnt, i dont think so.. so i dont think i like him like that, i dont think, but we have such a strong incredible connection. We trust each other so much and he’s just amazing in every aspect. so what should i do? just keep it like this and continue having fun or make a move? or talk about it?

i love the way everything is now,
and im so scared to ruin anything

Allison J asked:


somewhat enjoyable or not the worst experience of my life, i am nervous about enough things to keep me from fulfilling a promise to have sex with my boyfriend on christmas, but need to know what will help to make sure that i can handle it correctly.

we are 17 years old. dating for 3 years and have as strong of a relationship as we can have as teens.

Lisa K asked:


I dont know what to do, if i finish it i will feel so guilty because i have very strong feelings for this guy.

Let me just tell you the basiscs:
We met on holiday in greece ( im greek, i always go there every summer thats how i got introduced to him because i have many friends and family there) for about 3 weeks towards he end of the summer holiday we were hapily coupled enjoying the summer romance. when out of no where one night he said to me lets carry this on we’ll try and see how it goes. so i thought what the hell lets do it.

when i came back to ngland it was horrible i felt like my heart was dying, seriously. trust wasnt an issue i had and still have total trust in him. its just that it is one of those relationships where everything is right you knw when you together everything else is out of the picture just you and him …you can even call it love.

i know what you’re thinking 3 weeks come on fling but seriously it isnt a fling …we’ve been having this long relationship for 7 months and meanwhile he’s come over to england for 2 weeks and spent them with me. but i cant carry on like this he has a life over there and i have one over here. i cant ask him to leave his life and come and live with me its too toooo early for that.

the problem is that i feel like nothing with out him now. he’s recently gone back to greece, we talk every day one way or anther we keep in contact. it just like a fairy tale, this silly young love which i must say REALLY hurts. going back to the whole problem …i feel like both of us are suffering from this …he’s there waiting for me im here alone waitin for the holidays just to see him. i feel that sometimes i justw anna tell him listen lets just leave it this relationship isnt going to go further than you know during holidays …its too hard i dont know what going to happen but i just wanted some advice…

….do you think i should carry it on or tell him that its better for both of us to just get on with our lives …by the way that would be the hardest thing to do …considering that ive been dating properly for about 3 years now and he’s the first guy i actually have feelings for

thanks to anyone who answers and please be considerate and try to remember your first love ..thats bascily what im going through

all the best

Tom Parris asked:

Are you having a relationship trouble? Do you dream of a better longer lasting relationship? Do you want to make it work? These 5 simple tips will help you, no matter what stage your relationship is at now. Anyone who wants a strong and trusting relationship, read on…

1. Be open and honest with your partner. Lying and concealing the truth will only damage your relationship. Being closer will allow each other to grow closer. Even the little things count.

2. Keeping your word is a big one, if you say you will be home at a certain time, than be on time. Or at least let your partner know that you will be late. Keep your promises. If you say you will do something, than keep your word and do it. This is a foundation to a strong relationship.

3. Make plans with each other, taking their interests in mind. Sometimes you will not want or like your partner’s interests. This works both ways and should not be one sided. This all shows your partner that you do love them and builds a strong relationship.

4. Focus on your partners strengths. Make them feel good about them selves. Tell them how sexy they look, how smart they are and how much you love them, for them being them. This is a healthy way to show your love; by raising their confidence.

5. Listen to and respect your partner’s feelings, what they want and need. If you have problems with anything, than tell them now, do not wait. Compromise between each other, do not let your relationship to be one sided. A relationship involves two people. If your partner does not respect your wishes, than maybe you are not right for each other.