=(The Anti-Troll)= asked:


So I am an Asian guy dating an Asian girl, unfortunately we go to an overwhelmingly White college (both of us transferring out soon). I like White people but our college has few minorities in it and usually it is common to hear some racial slurs being thrown your way.

So there was this guy who was trying to go with the girl I currently date and she turned him down. Now I fall in love with this girl (we have been together for 7 months) and we are still going strong but this guy keeps trying to screw us up. He would jump inbetween our conversations, go around preaching about “multiculturalism” and how my girlfriend is close minded for sticking with her own race, he messages my girlfriend on instant messenger and she had to block him, he keeps trying to get near her and one time she even yelled at him for it, and last but not least he talks a lot of trash to me and tries to find reasons to fight me and verbally insult me in public.

What can we do here to avoid him for a couple more months?

LifeIsPassion asked:


I know I had to break with my boyfriend of 11mo. It was an emotionally abusive relationship. He was bad for me in many ways. We were good friends and lovers at times, which kept things a float. I remain strong in the decision it is best for me to move on. Now I am living alone for the first time, in the apt we got together 2mo ago (lived together 6mo). I am surrounded by stuff that is his or was once ours. Which I will be modifing soon. Last night was my first night there, stayed with my parents for a week prior till he left. We do not talk civil. We have debt together in which I am going to wash in order to avoid him.

I am having a hard time shutting my mind off with this situation. Although I know it is for the “best”…. I can’t sleep, I am eating everything, my mind is going “crazy”…

Any suggestions or ideas on coping mechanisms in order to move on from this situation in a healthy manner?

Vincent asked:


I still have feelings for this girl I was dating for 2 months. I think we had strong feelings for each other and then all of a sudden within two weeks she became really distant.

This is her email:
i know i just sent u an email! gosh im really stupid..but listen…i probably shouldnt do a talk like this over email..but i just wanna get this off my chest and we can definitley talk more about it when we see each other

ive been so confused lately, on whether i wanna be in a relationship or not. It’s been so great getting to know you and u have been nothin more than sweet to me..but i just dont think im ready yet for it to be so official. This is my first summer being single and i never planned on even seeing someone or dating but you know how things just happened from grad ball to bomber and stuff and ur so cute and how can anyone say no to that!

it sucks cuz i feel like we have the greatest chemistry but something keeps holding me back, im not the kind who when they are dating someone they just dont call and stuff, but i feel like my school and friends are my priority right now and thats so unfair to u. So i figure me and u would be better off as friends cuz i dont want to make u drag on with my confusedness. This really sucks since shani is ur sister and well my bestfriend. But i know u are a very mature person and wouldnt let things get awkward between us all. I feel like im putting her in the middle of all this and I am a really bad friend for doing that but she loves u and well im sure wouldnt want me to hurt u so i think it should be okay.

like i still want us to hang out and be friends! even have all the guys over for that poker night! we’d all have so much fun and stuff! I hope u can understand that i really didnt mean to hurt u and I hope u can forgive me for all this:( cuz its made me so sad the last couple of days but i shouldnt be so selfish and think of just myself, i hope u can be okay with this. I just feel its better to be honest and tell u what im feeling, better than lying to u and keeping it a secret..in the long run u deserve someone who is on the same level as u and knows what they want.

talk to u soon i hope